The answer to this is no.
Here are a few things that are important for you to know:
Anal Sex
When it comes to anal sex, a good rule of thumb is that if you can get infection on your genitals (penis/vagina), you can also get it in your rectum. This includes HPV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, Herpes, etc. There are several reasons people have anal sex: pleasure, fear of pregnancy, a partner wants to try it, body dysphoria, avoiding vaginal sex because of menstruation/period, to keep vaginal “virginity,” and many others. Whatever the reason, it is important to know what the risks are to help you make more informed choices.
Anal sex, especially receptive anal sex, is riskier for transmitting HIV. What is meant by receptive anal sex is, during anal sex, the partner inserting the penis is called the insertive partner (or top), and the partner receiving the penis is called the receptive partner (or bottom). Only certain body fluids – blood, semen (cum), pre-seminal fluid (pre-cum), rectal fluids, vaginal fluids, and breast milk – from a person who has HIV can transmit HIV.
When having anal sex, micro-tears can happen in the rectum. Unlike the vagina, which is typically more elastic and stretches more easily, the anus is not as flexible. Even if you don’t see blood, those tears are likely still there, which can leave one more vulnerable to getting HIV if their partner has HIV.
Oral Sex
When it comes to oral sex, you can get STDs when you don’t use barriers like external condoms or dental dams. HPV, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Herpes, and Syphilis can all be transmitted during oral sex.